Bodhisattva assisted living

Bhutan has no nursing homes, no pay-for-stay or government sponsored assisted living facilities, despite a life expectancy approaching that of developed countries. When I visited the Khaling Hospital in Trashigang district, the physician informed me that, once a month, he visits “the elderlies” at Karma Thegsum Decheling Monastery. So, I thought, what a wonderful opportunity for a geriatric psychiatrist.

Forty-one folks over sixty, many but not all “orphans,” reside two to an apartment in this beautiful place. All of their needs are provided by the monastery leader, Rinpoche Zuri Truelku. The living environment is posh compared to many village residences. Flush toilets and hot water are provided. They have access to a prayer room, meals, and even an entertainment room for movies. Many spend hours circumambulating their private chorten. Lasting friendships are made and goodbyes said as fellow residents pass on. Two monks function as attendants and care is provided through the end of life. Wow.

The experience of meeting these people and witnessing the Bodhisattva generosity and compassion driving their care was perhaps the most moving experience we have had here in Bhutan.